Dreadlocks are my vision of hope, faith, and success. Their presence is responsible for wonderful positive changes in my life. My thinking, determination, spirituality, faith, and hunger for success are stronger than ever.
For more than fifteen years I have allowed my hair to naturally develop into dreadlocks. They have created a unique style –- some are long, some are short, with split ends, without split ends, and all thin. I do not use any chemicals, dyes, hair extensions, or much time on them other than weekly cleaning.
Many believe dreadlocks to be a fashion statement or a charm to allure women. Others see them as radical symbols against society or the racial inequalities. My dreadlocks symbolize love and respect; a declaration my life will be a success with an image of my conscious. In the early stages of growing dreadlocks, my closest relatives and friends shunned away. They did not understand what I was doing or believed I was taking “Black Culture” too far. To me, it was just hair, my hair; to family and friends, it was embarrassing to walk into public with “nappy” hair, especially with a Bachelors of Arts degree in computer science. Growing dreadlocks naturally has not been an easy ride. Fortunately, through my plan of action I stayed motivated and moving in the right direction. I listened more, talked less, read great writers, and developed an aggressive health plan. As my dreadlocks developed my life improved. My family and friends now admire my courage. Learning how to grow dreadlocks was difficult and confusing. Information from hairstylists, books, and magazines gave several choices: twist it, put bee’s wax in it, or not wash it for long lengths of time. None of these appealed to me. I placed my faith in the Universe and let nature take its course. Months later, dreadlocks came into my life. Society’s views are changing. However, those wishing to grow dreadlocks may have difficulty finding information to help them. By following a few simple tips, anyone can grow dreadlocks. Mostly, one does not need to be a militant, drop out of society, change jobs, or move to a tropical island. Growing dreadlocks takes courage, confidence, and a positive mind.
It is a wonderful and soulful journey into ones self. As with anything in life; faith, belief, persistence, and determination are keys to success with dreadlocks. So tell me what your reason for growing dreadlocks? I know it’s positive and moving … and we all would like to know. Thank you in advance for posting.
